How to Make an Average Guy Attractive
Is your guy really nice and sweet but kinda on the ugly side? Does this bother you? Many men pay little or no attention to their dress or demeanour, which can be hard to understand. While you cannot make an ugly
person pretty, you can do little things to help him improve his appearance to you, increase his self-esteem, and stop you being embarrassed.
Physical Changes
1. Deal with obvious physical issues first. For example:
* If he has a hairy back or very hairy chest consider getting him a
waxing.
* Get rid of his acne with a dermatologist visit, or try over the counter methods.
* If he
doesn't wash, make him wash.
* Get him a really good hair cut. Most guys have had 12 dollar hair cuts their entire lives. Get him an expensive salon hair
cut.
* Examine his feet. If they are a "walking" bio-hazard wash them and give him a foot massage. Sneak in a pedicure at the same time. Clip his
toenails, clean them (not the clippings), and rub in some moisturizer if his feet are chapped.
* Get a pumice stone and use it.
2. Rub lotion
on his elbows and any other rough spots. If he objects to lotion (some men will), give him a massage with lotion or massage oil.
3. Make sure he brushes his teeth, flosses, and uses
mouthwash.
4. If he wears unflattering glasses, help him use contacts or choose a nicer pair.
Exercise and Fitness
1. Encourage him to exercise, at least a little. Just 20 minutes a day can make a difference. Exercising together can be a lot of fun.
2. Encourage him to grow larger arm muscles by lifting you
up and down. Three sets of fifteen reps. every other day should do the trick.
3. If he isn't the exercise type try going for walks, yoga or other "intellectual" fitness
techniques.
4. Educate your guy on healthy eating. Remember health food doesn't have to taste bad.
5. Even a little exercise can improve posture which can greatly increase a
person's attractiveness and apparent confidence.
Dress
1. Encourage him to dress better. Nobody can change their physical appearance but they can change their clothing. Dressing well, clothing that fits, belts without studs is the number one way to quickly make a
guy look hotter.
2. Try to encourage an interest in fashion, or at least clothing, by getting him a subscription to Esquire or other men's magazine that contains mature fashion
hints.
3. Get into shoes with your man. A good pair of boots or shoes can increase his apparent height and posture. Shoes are also a fashion area that many men do not mind so much. Perhaps a good
place to start.
4. Understand his personal style. It may appear that he has none, but that too is a personal style. If he is straining for a style or wants to change one your job is easier, simply
help him become preppy, emo, nerdy/geeky, or whatever he and you want.
5. Do a color analysis on his complexion and help him choose colors that best reflect what looks he has. Most guys don't
understand this stuff at all, and he may enjoy reading about it. Links to Making the Average Guy attractive.
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